Edgy conversations are the backbone of Dan Waldschmidt’s approach to making a difference. According to Dan, most of our conversations are lame and we’ve forgotten how to be intimate and real in our dialogue. His blog, the Edge of Explosion, was rated by the Wall Street Journal as one of the top seven sales blogs anywhere on the Internet. Dan doesn’t settle for corporate speak and instead challenges us to have intimate conversations that truly make us pause. Can you even remember the last conversation that did that for you?
Will the world end tomorrow? If you haven’t heard, “judgment day” is May 21, 2011. Harold Camping, an 89-year-old California multimillionaire who runs one of the largest Christian radio networks in the world, believes the world will end at 6:00 p.m. with a massive earthquake. Did R.E.M. know something when they wrote their song “It’s the End of the World as We Know It?”
While we can allow ourselves to get caught up in such silliness, (sorry to anyone who actually thinks the world will end this way – but it is silly), when I hear of such proclamations, it does make me pause to consider the “what if” and have I lived my life in such a way that has made a difference.
Do I live my life with purpose, passion and values? How do I want to be remembered? Have you ever written your own obituary? When I was in college, one of my professor’s had us write our obituaries. Granted, this was used as a writing exercise, but I have remembered how powerful it was to write down the things that I hoped would be a part of my legacy.
So while we can ponder if the world will really end tomorrow, I challenge you to think about how you are living your life, and if the world were to end for you, have you really lived your life’s purpose?
Answer these questions –
If you could have anything you wanted in life, what would that be?
What could you do to improve the quality of your life?
What could you change to improve the quality of your life?
What are your strengths, talents and gifts?
What is your purpose in life?
You exist for a purpose. What will your obituary say? Write yours today – and if you don’t like what you see, you still have time to change it. The world is not ending tomorrow, but there is one thing we all know, it will end for all of us at some time.
I invite you to share your purpose or obituary in the comments.
Jeff Tobe, author and speaker, joined 30 Minute Business Dig to inspire businesses to think more creatively when interacting with their customers. In today’s economy, we can no longer continue to do what we’ve always done and expect different results. We need to be innovative and step out of our comfort zones to gain the competitive edge.
Jeff shares stories to illustrate his point throughout the interview. It’s entertaining and informative at the same time! After you listen, please comment with how you are creating unforgettable customer experiences!
Have you ever wondered how athletes break records? How millonaires make their millions?
Simply put, they accomplished what many of us think is not possible by believing they can do it. We are conditioned from a very young age to accept patterns of limited thinking – much like “the world is flat” or ” no one can break the four minute mile“.
We are all a product of our past, which may have resulted in a limited belief system. We have many beliefs that we have accepted over time as true and have never challenged whether they are valid or not. If you don’t believe you can break a record, you won’t. If you don’t believe you can earn what you are worth, you won’t. We allow our beliefs to stop us without even challenging them.
Here is a three step process to break free of outdated mindsets, practices and limiting beliefs.
Question Your Belief – Just because you believe it doesn’t mean it’s true. They are only true because you’ve decided and agreed they are true.
Change Your Belief – If it’s not true, change your way of thinking. This may mean you’ll need to also make an attitude shift. Beliefs are formed through repeated thoughts that you most likely learned from an early age. Now that they are a part of your subconsciously, you need to make a conscious effort to think differently.
Take Action – Roger Bannister did not break the four minute mile because he simply believed he could. He practiced! For you to achieve your goals, dreams and aspirations, you need to take some form of action.
What are some of your examples of how your beliefs and limited thinking stop you from achieving what you really want? Add your comments and ways you’ve overcome them!